Coaching
(I gave the interview in 2021 in preparation for the conference)
Why coaching? What makes coaching interesting to you?
In coaching, I am constantly inspired, amused and fascinated by how many gifts, possibilities and strengths each of my clients has and how many different perspectives there are on a situation.
Sometimes in a conversation I feel like I am reading a book. That is when I am part of the story that flows in our conversation and I can contribute to its richness.
What makes coaching interesting for companies, why do they hire you?
In a business environment, the coaching approach has proven to be effective in maintaining long-term employee motivation, taking responsibility for assigned tasks, and strengthening independence and courage to bring their own solutions and participate in creating strategies and planning tasks.
Managerial or work tasks, attitudes, and handling situations with colleagues or subordinates naturally intersect with personal attitudes and private life, which is why coaching is a very open and complex process for me, the essence of which is respect and trust.
Your biggest challenge?
The challenge in every conversation is to be as close as possible to the "place" where the client needs me.
What do you think is most important for the client?
An important aspect of coaching is to help the client discover himself in each topic, to strengthen the ability to accept his human (subjectively perceived) successes as well as failures, to explore with him the decisions he has made and needs to make, and to seek, expand and deepen his possibilities and resources to decide again and possibly differently.
Decision-making is often a big topic for clients, since it is decisions that make us who we are.
What do you think is the goal of coaching?
The goal and key to the success of the entire process is to strengthen confidence in one's own ability to handle the situation or leave it... and most importantly, in the fact that a solution exists.
That sounds ideal. Are there any difficult moments?
I care about my clients recognizing not only their potential, but also their own responsibility for their decisions. So that they understand that they have an impact on their surroundings and the change they make will affect the system in which they operate.
We also explore what the change will bring and whether this desired state is really what they want. Many times we go back to the beginning and defining what they actually want is often the most serious and difficult part of the coaching process.
Do you have a favourite coaching-related idea?
I have many of them, some are part of my training, some have literally become “humanized”, but now two have come to mind that I sometimes remind myself of. They are about allowing myself to perceive a situation completely differently, that it is normal to perceive the same thing differently than the rest of the world, and at the same time, that my perception is in my hands and I can change it.
“Everything wonderful that has happened in this world was first born in someone’s imagination.”
Astrid Lindgren (writer)